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With biblical truth and brain science, I help individuals and couples slow down, process what’s hard, and build deeper relationships with themselves, with God, and with the people they love so they can grow into who they were always meant to be.
You Appear To Have It All-Together, But Do You Feel Like Something Is Missing?
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If you feel stuck, spinning in frustration, weighed down by emotions you don’t know how to change, or longing for deeper connection, you’re not alone. There is a way forward.
With the right tools and steady support, you can renew your mind, strengthen your relationships, and experience peace and joy no matter what others do or what life brings.
25+ years of expertise. 1000's of lives changed.
Hi, I'm Jill!
True joy isn’t about avoiding pain; it’s found in being deeply rooted within, where peace and hope are alive, even in the hardest seasons.
The Happiest Lives
“They will be like a tree planted by the water… it has no worries in a year of drought and never fails to bear fruit.” -Jeremiah 17:7-8
Work With Me
In my signature programs Clarity + Courage and The Happiest Lives Academy, you’ll get tools, coaching, and support to become the woman God says you already are. Whether you prefer self-study or want community, you’ll grow with clarity, courage, and connection.
coaching & Tools For Women
You want to feel close again, but the conversations keep breaking down. We begin with the Gottman Assessment to get a clear picture of what’s working and what’s not. From there, I’ll guide you with a plan to rebuild trust, improve communication, and move forward together.
Private Couples coaching
If you feel stuck in your life, relationships, or goals and need a place to sort it all out, this is for you. I’ll help you get clear on what matters, untangle what’s holding you back, and give you tools that move you forward so you can create the life you’re meant to live.
Personalized 1:1 Coaching
My mission is to help you experience real transformation through personalized coaching that blends expert guidance, meaningful insight, and a kind but straightforward approach. Whether you’re seeking clarity, deeper connection, or real tools for lasting change, I’m here to walk with you every step of the way.
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EXPLORE THE SERVICES
I will give you a fresh new way to look at your relationship so that you can make some rapid changes without the exhausting work of trying to change another person.
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Participant Coaching Program for Wives
Tracy
Jill has a way of using visuals and fun stories to teach the topic of the week in her videos that I’ll remember forever.
"I highly recommend Jill's coaching programs if you ever need a reset in your marrige. "
Happy Couple
mark & Michelle
I thought maybe it was too late. But this process gave us a way to grow closer again.
" I’m so THANKFUL we took the time."
1:1 Coaching Client
Kris
I have come so far in my heart though I know there is still work to do. I am so hopeful and abiding more in joy than ever before.
"Words cannot express how enormously grateful I am for the help Jill has given me."
Happy Couple
Cristal & Dwayne
We have gained effective strategies and methods for explaining ourselves in non-offensive ways which create opportunities to grow deeper in intimate connections.
"We have become more genuine and authentic spouses who seek to understand the other. "
1:1 Coaching Client
Kisha
My life is immeasurably blessed because of the skills Jill taught me. Jill has made me acutely aware of how I identified myself and that my identity wasn’t being a victim or a woman scorned, but my identity is as a child of God who loves me more than I ever knew. She helped me see His faithfulness over my life.
"How could I have known the impact that Jill would have on me, helping me find strength in the dark places? "
1:1 Coaching Client
courtney
When I was stuck in guilt, confusion, and toxic influences, Jill gave me the tools to clear the chaos and find my footing. She helped me see that peace and healing were possible — and that I had the strength to move forward.
"Jill helped me find clarity and hope I didn't think were possible. "
6 Week Marriage Makeover
Angela
I thought that if he didn’t change, there was very little more I could do to improve our 25-year marriage — that what we had was what I could expect for the rest of my life. Happily, I was wrong! I’m so excited about the changes that have already occurred and know it’s only the beginning.
"I am so much more empowered in my relationship with my husband. "
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Move forward in quiet confidence, grounded in faith and hope.
Strengthen your relationships with deeper love and understanding.
Clear your mind and calm the noise inside.
Some days it’s the questions.
Other days, it’s the quiet ache for more.
More clarity. More connection. More peace.
You were never meant to walk alone.
Clarity+Courage offers steady, Christ-centered support, blending biblical wisdom and brain science to help you:
Clarity+Courage
becoming the woman god says you already are
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The Happiest Lives Podcast is for the woman who loves Jesus but still finds herself snapping, shutting down, or quietly aching with disappointment—in her marriage, her life, or other relationships.
If that’s you, you’re not broken and you’re not alone. Each week, I’ll help you take small, powerful steps to feel more connected, more steady, and more like the woman God says you already are, so you can create real change, without carrying it all alone.
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