Real Change: For You, Your Marriage and Your Inner Well-being
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Support to grow in peace, confidence, and forward momentum
Tools to process emotions and uncover what’s keeping you stuck
A judgment-free space to sort through what’s really going on
Whether your feeling numb, anxious, on edge and consistently overwhelmed, private coaching offers a focused space to process, gain clarity, and take confident next steps. We’ll work together on the issues that matter most to you—relationships, mindset, emotional well-being, or life direction.
Personalized 1:1 Coaching
emotional exhaustion isn't your only option
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starting from $225
Discover new ways to support each other as partners and individuals
Reconnect emotionally and build lasting intimacy
Learn tools to resolve conflict and foster deeper understanding
Whether you’re navigating conflict, feeling emotionally distant, or longing for more connection, tools and coaching can help you rebuild trust, improve communication, and move forward together with greater clarity and purpose.
As a Certified Gottman Couples Therapist, I offer a proven, research-based approach to help you reconnect and strengthen your relationship—no matter where you’re starting.
Couples Coaching
most couples wait six years too long to ask for help. You don’t have to.
Let's Do This!
starting AT $64 a month
Encouragement to live with purpose, peace, and boldness right where you are
Monthly tools, worksheets, and coaching to help you keep growing
A biblical, life-giving process for navigating emotions and relationships
You were made for more than just getting through the day. Clarity + Courage Coaching and The Happiest Lives Academy are designed to help you become the woman God says you already are—the one your younger self imagined.
Whether you’re feeling stuck, emotionally drained, or distant in your relationships, you’ll find tools and processes to help you navigate what’s hard, renew your mind, and move forward with clarity, courage, and joy.
Through a Christ-centered framework, you’ll gain practical coaching tools, scripture study and application questions you can use for self-study, plus the strength of a supportive community through live group calls. These programs are a powerful reminder: you’re never alone, and your transformation is already underway.
Coaching & Tools for Christian Women
Self paced study. live coaching. Christ-centered connection.
Wait... Aren't You A Therapist?
Yes—I’m a Licensed Professional Counselor and a Certified Gottman Couples Therapist with over 25 years of experience. But at The Happiest Lives, I’m offering coaching, not therapy. That’s an important distinction. Here’s why:
Why Coaching?
I created The Happiest Lives to offer faith-based, forward-moving support that helps individuals and couples grow emotionally, relationally, and spiritually without requiring a mental health diagnosis or a therapy framework.
Coaching allows me to work with clients across state lines. It gives me the flexibility to support women and couples who are emotionally stable but feeling stuck, disconnected, or unsure how to move forward. It’s a way to provide guidance, tools, and truth in a supportive environment so you can take meaningful steps toward lasting change.
❌ You’re experiencing intense emotional distress or trauma that’s affecting your ability to function day-to-day. Coaching isn’t a substitute for clinical mental health care.
❌ You’re looking for a diagnosis or treatment plan. Coaching doesn’t involve mental health assessments or medical advice.
❌ You’re hoping someone will tell you exactly what to do. Coaching is collaborative—it’s about helping you discover your own insight, not giving prescriptive answers.
❌ You’re not in a place to take action right now. Coaching works best when you’re ready to reflect, try new things, and move forward (even if it’s one small step at a time).
❌ You want to stay focused on past experiences or unresolved trauma. While coaching honors your story, deep healing from the past is often better supported through therapy.
Coaching is not the best fit if...
✅ You’re doing “okay,” but something still feels off. You’re functioning, but feeling stuck, disconnected, or unsure of what’s next.
✅ You want to move forward—not just talk about the past. You’re ready for change and want help taking action.
✅ You’re looking for practical tools and steady support. You don’t need someone to “fix” you—you want someone to walk with you as you grow.
✅ You’re in a season of transition or decision. Coaching can help you find clarity and peace when life feels uncertain.
✅ You want to grow—in your faith, your relationships, or your emotional health. You’re longing to live more fully into who God created you to be.
Coaching may be right for you if...
COACHING is future-focused. It helps you get unstuck, build emotional resilience, and move toward the life and relationships you want. It’s great when you’re functioning okay but need clarity, tools, or support to move forward.
COUNSELING OR THERAPY is often focused on healing—especially if you’re working through trauma, emotional pain, or mental health struggles that are affecting daily life. It offers a space to process, make sense of your story, and find deeper healing.
Coaching vs. Therapy
If you’re unsure which path is right for you, I’m happy to help you decide. Just reach out.
True joy isn’t about avoiding pain; it’s found in being deeply rooted within, where peace and hope are alive, even in the hardest seasons.
The Happiest Lives
“They will be like a tree planted by the water… it has no worries in a year of drought and never fails to bear fruit.” -Jeremiah 17:7-8
Learning to do a Heart Scan and asking the Lord to be present in the changes he desires for me will be a habit I hope to see in my life for years to come.Jill is a wonderful teacher and support. "
"Never before have I taken the time to write down my thoughts about a situation and see how directly it affects my outcome.
Client
Vivian
That was a bonus—but the real change was in my heart and thought life. I have joy and peace as an underlying current in my being now. I feel solid, not blown around, not begging God for a different husband, life, or feelings. It’s priceless. Truly.”
"After just the first few weeks in the Academy, my husband started commenting on the difference.
Client
Robbie
What Clients Are Saying
real stories. real change.
Participant Coaching Program for Wives
Tracy
Jill has a way of using visuals and fun stories to teach the topic of the week in her videos that I’ll remember forever.
"I highly recommend Jill's coaching programs if you ever need a reset in your marrige. "
Happy Couple
mark & Michelle
I thought maybe it was too late. But this process gave us a way to grow closer again.
" I’m so THANKFUL we took the time."
1:1 Coaching Client
Kris
I have come so far in my heart though I know there is still work to do. I am so hopeful and abiding more in joy than ever before.
"Words cannot express how enormously grateful I am for the help Jill has given me."
Happy Couple
Cristal & Dwayne
We have gained effective strategies and methods for explaining ourselves in non-offensive ways which create opportunities to grow deeper in intimate connections.
"We have become more genuine and authentic spouses who seek to understand the other. "
1:1 Coaching Client
Kisha
My life is immeasurably blessed because of the skills Jill taught me. Jill has made me acutely aware of how I identified myself and that my identity wasn’t being a victim or a woman scorned, but my identity is as a child of God who loves me more than I ever knew. She helped me see His faithfulness over my life.
"How could I have known the impact that Jill would have on me, helping me find strength in the dark places? "
1:1 Coaching Client
courtney
When I was stuck in guilt, confusion, and toxic influences, Jill gave me the tools to clear the chaos and find my footing. She helped me see that peace and healing were possible — and that I had the strength to move forward.
"Jill helped me find clarity and hope I didn't think were possible. "
6 Week Marriage Makeover
Angela
I thought that if he didn’t change, there was very little more I could do to improve our 25-year marriage — that what we had was what I could expect for the rest of my life. Happily, I was wrong! I’m so excited about the changes that have already occurred and know it’s only the beginning.
"I am so much more empowered in my relationship with my husband. "
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